Stolen Innocence

Preface

 

200 Question BDSM Checklist - Printable Version
This checklist is formatted to print correctly on standard 8-1/2"x11" paper. For personal use only.

http://www.cepemo.com/checklist.html (Site is NO LONGER ONLINE)

Checklists are frequently difficult to complete due to the complex variety to what we enjoy. When we try to fill them out as Tops, Bottoms, Dominants, Submissives, etcetera there is usually confusion over fetishes that aren't physically interactive between partners or over activities that may not clear as to who is giving and who receiving. A sincere effort has been made here to reduce this kind of confusion, but bdsm checklists will never be perfect enough that you won't probably have to go to your partner and confer about how to answer at least one item. Take it as a blessing in disguise - a bdsm checklist is only supposed to get a conversation started. That's what the tool is made for. Remember, it's just a beginning to negotiation, not an end in itself. 

Done to/for Self: Read this as how you feel about being on the receiving end of the act.
(As examples, here Whipping would refer to you being whipped, while Massage would mean you're the one on the table.) 

Done to/for Others: Read this as how you feel about having someone else receive this act.
(In the examples above, you would be delivering the Whipping, or serving your partner a Massage.) 

Tried: Have you tried this? Circle Yes or No for each. 

Rating: How does/might this feel to you? Use the chart below as a guide, and circle two answers together if you're "in-between."


/

Not Applicable

Actions that are physical impossibilities. Draw a slash through the box for these.

?

Curious

Maybe you're never tried this, or only once, and want to experience more before deciding how much you like it.

!

Essential

This is something that you can't see yourself enjoying a scene/date/relationship without.

5

Love

You love doing whatever it is.

4

Like

You like doing whatever it is.

3

Don't Mind

You can take this or leave it, but will probably do it for your partner.

2

Dislike

You dislike this but will put up with it for your partner.

1

Hate

You hate this but will put up with it for your partner.

×

Soft Limit

Something you cannot attempt at this time but might be possible in the future.

X

Hard Limit

Something you will not ever attempt.





Activity

To/For Self

To/For Others

Done

Rate

Done

Rate

Anal Play 
Acts in which the anus is involved.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Beating (General) 
Acts in which one partner is beaten.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Beating - Canes 
Acts in which one partner is beaten with a cane.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Beating - Crops 
Acts in which one partner is beaten with a crop.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Beating - Floggers 
Acts in which one partner is beaten with a flogger.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Beating - Hairbrushes 
Acts in which one partner is beaten with a hairbrush.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Beating - Hard 
Acts in which one partner is beaten hard.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Beating - Paddles 
Acts in which one partner is beaten with a paddle.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Beating - Soft 
Acts in which one partner is beaten softly.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Beating - Spanking 
Acts in which one partner is beaten with a hand.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Beating - Straps 
Acts in which one partner is beaten with a strap.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Beating - Whips 
Acts in which one partner is beaten with a whip.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Beating Location - Back 
Beating based acts that focus on the back as a target.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Beating Location - Bottom 
Beating based acts that focus on the bottom as a target.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit


Activity

To/For Self

To/For Others

Done

Rate

Done

Rate

Beating Location - Chest 
Beating based acts that focus on the chest or breasts as a target.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Beating Location - Feet 
Beating based acts that focus on the feet (usually the soles) as a target.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Beating Location - Genitals 
Beating based acts that focus on the genitals as a target.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Beating Location - Legs 
Beating based acts that focus on the legs as a target.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Bestiality 
Sex with animals.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Biting 
Acts involving biting one partner with the teeth of the other.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Blindfolds 
Acts in which blindfolds are placed over one partner's eyes to remove that sense (and often heighten others).

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Body Modification - Branding 
Burning the body, often with a specific design, to leave a permanent mark or scar.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Body Modification - Piercing, Permanent 
Putting an object through a part of the body for permanent adornment.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Body Modification - Piercing, Play 
Exploring the concept of body piercing but in a manner that is temporary.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Body Modification - Saline Injection 
Injecting saline in to a part of the body to temporarily engorge it.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Body Modification - Scarification 
Deliberately causing scars, often through cutting the skin, for adornment.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Body Modification - Tattooing 
Adorning the body by permanently applying ink under the skin.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Bondage (General) 
Binding or restricting some or all of the body.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit


Activity

To/For Self

To/For Others

Done

Rate

Done

Rate

Bondage - Breast 
Binding or restricting the breasts.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Bondage - Cuffs 
Binding or restricting the body (usually the wrists) with [hand]cuffs.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Bondage - Genital 
Binding or restricting the genitals.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Bondage - Heavy 
Heavily binding or restricting the body, usually to the point where no, or next-to no, movement is possible.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Bondage - Intricate 
Intricately binding or restricting some or all of the body.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Bondage - Light 
Lightly binding or restricting the body. Usually more symbolic than actually restrictive.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Bondage - Locks 
Bondage that involves locks and keys.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Bondage - Prolonged 
Binding or restricting some or all of the body for prolonged periods of time.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Bondage - Sleeves, Arm 
Restricting the movement of the arms by placing them in a confining sleeve.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Bondage - Sleeves, Leg 
Restricting the movement of the legs by placing them in a confining sleeve.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Bondage - Spreader Bars 
Restricting the movement of the legs by connecting them to either end of a bar, usually forcing them open.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Bondage - Stocks 
Restricting movement by placing the wrists and neck (though may involve ankles) through a set of stocks.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Bondage - Strait Jackets 
Binding or restricting the torso and arms by placing them inside a straight jacket.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Activity

To/For Self

To/For Others

Done

Rate

Done

Rate

Bondage - Suspension 
Binding or restricting someone so they are suspended above the ground.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Bondage - Suspension, Inverted 
Binding or restricting someone so they are suspended above the ground, upside-down.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Bondage - Whole Body 
Binding or restricting the whole body.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Bondage Material - Chain 
Binding or restricting the body, or parts of, with chain.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Bondage Material - Leather 
Binding or restricting the body, or parts of, with leather.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Bondage Material - Rope 
Binding or restricting the body, or parts of, with rope.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Bondage Material - Saran Wrap 
Binding or restricting the body, or parts of, with saran wrap (cling film).

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Bondage Material - Scarves 
Binding or restricting the body, or parts of, with [usually silk] scarves.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Bondage Material - Tape 
Binding or restricting the body, or parts of, with [usually adhesive] tape.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Breath Play 
Also called Asphyxiation. Acts involving restricting or cutting off the supply of oxygen.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Catheters 
Inserting a tube in to the urethra to collect urine.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Clothespins 
Using clothespins to pinch parts of the body.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Clothing - Chosen For 
Having your clothing choices made for you, usually without the ability to appeal.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Clothing - Corsets 
Wearing corsets which control the shape of the waist and hips.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit


Activity

To/For Self

To/For Others

Done

Rate

Done

Rate

Clothing - Full Head Hoods 
Wearing hoods that cover the entire head, leaving only small holes for vision, breathing, etc. (if even them).

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Clothing - Harnesses 
Wearing clothing that harnesses the body without necessarily covering it.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Clothing - High Heels 
Wearing high-heeled shoes.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Clothing - Lingerie 
Wearing women's lingerie.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Clothing - Masks 
Wearing masks that cover the face.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Clothing - Uniforms (General) 
Wearing uniforms that have a given significance.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Clothing - Uniforms, Military 
Wearing military uniforms.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Clothing - Uniforms, School 
Wearing schoolgirl/schoolboy uniforms.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Clothing Material - Leather 
Clothing made out of, or involving, leather.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Clothing Material - PVC 
Clothing made out of, or involving, PVC (the shiny plasticy material).

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Clothing Material - Rubber 
Clothing made out of, or involving, rubber or latex.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Clothing Material - Sheer 
Clothing made out of, or involving, sheer (transparent or translucent) material.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Collars - Private 
Wearing a "slave" collar in private.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Collars - Public 
Wearing a "slave" collar in public.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit


Activity

To/For Self

To/For Others

Done

Rate

Done

Rate

Crawling 
The act of crawling on all fours to denote submission.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Cutting 
Deliberately cutting the skin.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Dilation - Anal 
Deliberately stretching the anus open.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Dilation - Vaginal 
Deliberately stretching the vagina open.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Discipline 
Submitting to, or receiving, the [often corporal] discipline of another.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Drinking - Blood 
Drinking blood.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Drinking - Semen 
Drinking semen.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Drinking - Urine 
Drinking urine.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Electricity 
Using electricity for sensation or pain.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Enemas 
Applying liquid (traditionally warm water) in to the lower intestine, via a tube. Often to induce uncontrolled, or hard to control, excretion.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Examination - Physical 
Having your body physically examined and, often, appraised. Sometimes this includes medical examination roleplays though, here, that is listed as Roleplay - Medical.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Exhibitionism - Forced 
Exposing your body to others, nominally against your will, at the will of another.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Exhibitionism - Voluntary 
Willingly exposing your body to others.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit


Activity

To/For Self

To/For Others

Done

Rate

Done

Rate

Face Slapping 
Slapping the face, usually with an open hand, to cause pain or denote position.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Fisting - Anal 
Placing an entire hand (the term "fist" is often an exaggeration) inside the anus.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Fisting - Vaginal 
Placing an entire hand (the term "fist" is often an exaggeration) inside the vagina.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Food - Chosen For 
Having your food choices made for you, usually without the ability to appeal.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Food - From Body 
Eating food from another person's body. Either eating it directly from them or using them as a platter.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Food - From Bowl 
Eating food directly from a bowl, like an animal such as a cat or dog.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Food - From Hand 
Eating food directly from another person's hand.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Gags (General) 
Devices used to limit, or prevent, verbal communication.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Gags - Ball 
A type of gag that uses a ball to effectively block any verbal communication.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Gags - Bit 
A type of gag that uses a bar that goes across the mouth, much like a horse's "bit".

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Gags - Ring 
A type of gag that uses a ring to force the mouth open while providing access to the, now undefendable, mouth.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Gags - Tape 
Using adhesive tape across the mouth to create a gag.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Given Away (General) 
Being given, at a partner's whim, to another person, usually temporarily.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Given Away - Auctions 
Being given to another person as the result of a [slave] auction.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit


Activity

To/For Self

To/For Others

Done

Rate

Done

Rate

Given Away - Permanent 
Being given away, at a partner's whim, to another person, permanently.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Hand Jobs 
Pleasuring someone else's genitals with your hand.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Heterosexuality - Forced 
Sexual acts with members of the opposite sex, nominally against your will.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Heterosexuality - Voluntary 
Sexual acts with members of the opposite sex, willingly.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Homosexuality - Forced 
Sexual acts with members of the same sex, nominally against your will.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Homosexuality - Voluntary 
Sexual acts with members of the same sex, willingly.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Humiliation - Private 
Acts in which you are humiliated, degraded, or shamed, in a private setting.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Humiliation - Public 
Acts in which you are humiliated, degraded, or shamed, in front of others.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Humiliation - Verbal 
Acts in which you are humiliated, degraded, or shamed, through either the words of someone else (such as name calling) or your own words.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Including Others 
Acts in which other people, from outside your immediate relationship, are included.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Kneeling 
The act of kneeling to denote submission.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Leashes 
Wearing a leash, attached to a collar (or other convenient point).

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Lecturing 
An exposition of a given subject for the purpose of instruction or reprimand.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Licking 
Using your tongue on another person's body [or, often, anything they require].

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit


Activity

To/For Self

To/For Others

Done

Rate

Done

Rate

Massage 
Rubbing another person's body for their relaxation.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Masturbation - Forced 
Pleasuring your own genitals, with your hand, nominally against your will.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Masturbation - Voluntary 
Pleasuring your own genitals, with your hand, willingly.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Nipple Clamps 
Placing clamps on the nipples to cause pain.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Nipple Play 
Acts that focus on the nipples.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Nipple Weights 
Applying weights to the nipples to stretch them, generally to cause pain.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Nudity - Forced 
Periods of time spent without clothing, nominally against you will.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Nudity - Voluntary 
Periods of time spent without clothing.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Orgasm - On Command 
Having to orgasm on the command of another person.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Orgasm Control 
Giving control of when and how orgasms are experienced - and when they are not - to another person.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Orgasm Denial 
Losing the right to have orgasms for an [often protracted] period of time.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Pain (General) 
Acts involving physical pain.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Pain - Heavy 
Acts involving a very large degree of physical pain.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Pain - Light 
Acts involving some physical pain, yet without too great an intensity - being more symbolic than serious.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit


Activity

To/For Self

To/For Others

Done

Rate

Done

Rate

Phone Sex 
Having sexually explicit phone conversations, usually involving performing sexual acts at the same time.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Rape - Fantasy 
Acts that explore being sexually used, nominally against your will, by another person.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Rape - Fantasy, Gang 
Acts that explore being sexually used, nominally against your will, by more than one other person.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Recorded Scenes - Photographs, Private 
Having photographs taken of you, either naked or indulging in a sexual act, for private viewing only.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Recorded Scenes - Photographs, Shared 
Having photographs taken of you, either naked or indulging in a sexual act, to be shared with others.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Recorded Scenes - Video, Private 
Having video taken of you, either naked or indulging in a sexual act, for private viewing only.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Recorded Scenes - Video, Shared 
Having video taken of you, either naked or indulging in a sexual act, to be shared with others.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Roleplay (General) 
Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Roleplay - Age 
Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles based on being a different age (such as babies or naughty young girls).

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Roleplay - Education 
Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles based on a scholastic teacher/student setting.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Roleplay - Interrogation 
Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles based on interrogations where one person is the interrogator and the other the subject.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit


Activity

To/For Self

To/For Others

Done

Rate

Done

Rate

Roleplay - Kidnapping 
Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles based on one partner being kidnapped.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Roleplay - Medical 
Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles such as Doctor/Patient.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Roleplay - Pig 
Scenes in which the subject takes on and acts out a role based on being a pig.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Roleplay - Pony 
Scenes in which the subject takes on and acts out a role based on being a pony.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Roleplay - Prison 
Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles based on the prison world such as Sadistic Jailer/Vulnerable Inmate

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Roleplay - Puppy 
Scenes in which the subject takes on and acts out a role based on being a puppy or adult dog.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Roleplay - Religious 
Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles based on the religious world such as confessionals or Bishop/Nun.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Roleplay - Whore 
Scenes in which the subject takes on and acts out a role based on being a male or female prostitute, selling themselves to another person for sex.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Sensation Play (General) 
Acts involving the senses and strong sensations.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Sensation Play - Deprivation 
Acts involving depriving the subject of their senses (often to heighten the remaining ones).

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Sensation Play - Fire 
Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by fire and heat.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Sensation Play - Hair Pulling 
Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by having hair pulled.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit


Activity

To/For Self

To/For Others

Done

Rate

Done

Rate

Sensation Play - Hot Wax 
Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by having hot candle wax dripped on to or applied to the body.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Sensation Play - Ice 
Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by using ice or other cold items on the body.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Sensation Play - Needle 
Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by using needles on the body, either scratching with them, or poking them.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Sensation Play - Scratching 
Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by being scratched.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Sensation Play - Suction 
Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by having suction applied to the body.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Sensation Play - Teasing 
Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by teasing the body.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Sensation Play - Tickling 
Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by tickling the body.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Serving (General) 
Serving another person in specific ways, putting their pleasure ahead of your own. For example, a maid or a sexual servant.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Serving - Art 
Serving another person, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, as a (usually immobile) piece of artwork such as a statue.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Serving - Ashtray 
Serving another person, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, using a part of your body as a receptacle for their cigarette or cigar ash.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Serving - Chauffer 
Serving another person, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, as their formal driver.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit


Activity

To/For Self

To/For Others

Done

Rate

Done

Rate

Serving - Dancer 
Serving another person, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, as a dancer. For example, a belly dancer or stripper.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Serving - Following Orders 
Serving another person, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, as they give you specific formal orders to follow.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Serving - Forced 
Serving another person in specific ways, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, nominally forced against your will.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Serving - Furniture 
Serving another person, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, as an immobile piece of furniture. For example, on all fours as a table or a footstool.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Serving - Housework 
Serving another person, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, performing household chores.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Serving - Maid 
Serving another person, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, as a maid. For example, serving tea while wearing a uniform.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Serving - Sexually 
Serving another person, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, in whatever sexual way pleases them.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Sex - Anal 
Sexual intercourse involving a penis entering your anus.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Sex - Cunnilingus 
Sexually stimulating the vagina with a mouth/tongue.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Sex - Denial 
Going without sex, or sexual gratification, often at another person's command.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Sex - Fellatio 
Sexually stimulating the penis with a mouth/tongue.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Sex - Group 
Sexual intercourse with more than one partner.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit


Activity

To/For Self

To/For Others

Done

Rate

Done

Rate

Sex - Penetration, Double 
Sexual intercourse in which two orifices (mouth, vagina, anus) are filled.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Sex - Penetration, Triple 
Sexual intercourse in which three orifices (mouth, vagina, anus) are filled.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Sex - Rimming 
Sexually stimulating the anus with a mouth/tongue.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Sex - Threesome 
Sexual intercourse with two other people.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Sex - Vaginal 
Sexual intercourse involving a penis entering your vagina.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Sex - Vanilla 
Traditional sexual intercourse, without involving any kinks.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Sex Toys - Beads 
Having a string of connected beads (or balls) inserted in to your anus or vagina and then pulled out.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Sex Toys - Butt Plugs 
Wearing a "plug" inserted in to your anus.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Sex Toys - Dildos 
Using and/or being penetrated with a non-vibrating artificial phallus.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Sex Toys - Eggs 
Variously known as Ben-Wa Balls, Love Eggs, etc. Two balls made to be vaginally inserted which vibrate when you move or are battery powered to vibrate.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Sex Toys - Public (Under Clothes) 
Going out in public with a sex toy (such as a butt plug) in your body, under your clothing.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Sex Toys - Strap On 
Using and/or being penetrated with an artificial phallus that fastens about a partner's waist.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Sex Toys - Vibrators 
Using and/or being penetrated with a vibrating toy, usually an artificial phallus.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit


Activity

To/For Self

To/For Others

Done

Rate

Done

Rate

Shaving - Body 
Removing all traces of hair below the neck.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Shaving - Genital 
Removing all traces of hair from the genitals.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Shaving - Genital, Styling 
Shaving or trimming pubic hair, removing some but not all of it in a given style.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Shaving - Head 
Removing all traces of hair from the head.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Showers - Brown 
Defecating on another person.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Showers - Golden 
Urinating on another person.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Speculums - Anal 
Using a medical tool to dilate (stretch open) the entrance to the anus, providing access within.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Speculums - Vaginal 
Using a medical tool to dilate (stretch open) the entrance to the vagina, providing access within.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Swapping (Partner) 
Sex between two or more couples where members of each couple exchange partners and have sex with them.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Voyeurism 
Watching someone, often without their knowledge, in a situation with sexual connotations.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Worship - Boot 
Worshiping the boots of another person.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Worship - Bottom 
Worshiping the bottom of another person.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Worship - Breast 
Worshiping the breasts of another person.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit


Activity

To/For Self

To/For Others

Done

Rate

Done

Rate

Worship - Foot 
Worshiping the feet of another person.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Worship - Genital 
Worshiping the genitals of another person.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Worship - High Heel 
Worshiping the high-heeled shoes of another person.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Wrestling 
Wrestling with another person, overpowering them or being overpowered.

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

Yes
No

Essential   Curious
5    4    3    2    1
Soft Limit   Hard Limit

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